Embrace Uncertainty

Vick was doing okay on his corporate job.. It was enough to make a day to day living together with his live-in partner Christy..

Because they were both young, Vick held on to his corporate job.. Even if what he loves to do is writing by being an entrepreneur/intrapreneur.. He has no opportunity to write at all on his job.. He can’t do what he loves except on rare moments..

What he wants to be is a freelance writer & an entrepreneur/intrapreneur.. And because Vick is still occupied with his job, he’s trapped within his situation..

He wanted to try freelance writing on the side while he’s still working on his full-time job.. But it’s becoming too tiring for him.. He also has to maintain the apartment that they’re living at..

Thankfully, after 4 months, Vick was accepted on a minimum paying job in a national newspaper/magazine..

“It’s something..” Vick thought.. It’s not ideal, but at least, they had some funds to live by day by day..

The thought of quitting his corporate job is becoming more vivid..

But as it happens to the best of us, uncertainty crept up his mind & stopped him in his tracks..

But you know, there’s a way to use uncertainty to our advantage.. And use it as a strength, not as a weakness..

Rewire your mind about these 4 things to embrace uncertainty..

🎭 Rewire your mind about risks..

We are afraid of something we don’t know.. We are afraid of discomfort.. But with discomfort comes growth..

Take your time & learn how to take calculated risks.. And learn to take baby steps towards your learning zone or growth zone.. Learn how to venture outside your comfort zone..

If you take time analyzing the situations, you’ll find that the benefits far outweigh the costs..

The lessons you can take from each experience is worth the discomfort & fear you faced..

🎭 Affirmations to help you rewire your mind about risks..

👉 I take calculated risks & I enjoy growing..

👉 I grow because I venture outside of my comfort zone..

👉 I grow because I face my fear..

👉 I love going out of my way to actually live life & take risks..

👉 I make it a habit to do something unfamiliar each day..

👉 Rewire your mind about the idea of imperfection..

👉 We tend to hide behind the idea of perfection..

But you’ll be able to see that when you reveal yourself behind the curtains of perfection..

When you reveal yourself as an imperfect human being, you’ll be able to see the beauty within..

The reality, the realness, the ‘true self’.. That’s who you are.. And that’s what you should be..

Don’t try to be anyone else but yourself..

🎭 Affirmations to help you rewire your mind about the idea of imperfection:

I love myself & this is who I am, I love me for me..

I love myself & I see myself as beautiful..

I am as real as I can & I am beautiful..

I love myself because I am real & beautiful..

My beauty shines because I am real & unique..

🎭 Rewire your mind about the approval of others..

We all want others’ approval.. We want to be loved & accepted.. But growth means accepting yourself first..

To see yourself for what you’re really worth.. That’s the secret ingredient of self-growth & self-love..
Well, it’s not really a secret but it’s easier said than done..

👉 To help you with this, you can start a self-love journal.. Just jot down everything you love about yourself.. Jot down your accomplishments for the day, your past achievements, etc..

👉 Take note of everything you did right.. Take note of everything you love about yourself.. Take note of what other people love about you..

👉 What are the compliments you receive most of the time..?

👉 You should be a standalone player.. You should be able to take on the world alone.. Have that strength.. And uncertainty will have nothing against you..

🎭 Affirmations to rewire your mind about the approval of others:

👉 I grow in self-love every day..

👉 I take note of every great thing about myself..

👉 I know what I am capable of..
And I am capable of great things..

👉 I grow in self-confidence day by day..

👉 Every day in every way, I’m getting better as a person..

🎭 Rewire your mind about yourself..

Almost the same as the two points above..

What I simply want to say is that you should know that you are enough as you are..

You don’t need anything else.. You don’t need anyone else.. You can do it.. You are equipped..

And once you know that..

You’ll be on your path to growth..

You’ll have the courage to pursue what you want to pursue..

Facing your fear will be easier..

And growth will become your game..

🎭 Affirmations to rewire your mind about yourself:

👉 I am enough, I love myself..

👉 I know I am equipped with everything, I can do what I love to do..

👉 I can do everything I put my heart & mind to..

👉 I am growing every day because I love myself..

👉 I embrace uncertainty  because that’s growth..

Like Vick, once you’re thinking about taking the leap.. Don’t hesitate.. Know that you’re always guided by that tingling feeling of ‘I should be doing that, & not this..’

Trust your gut..

Basically, you can’t expect change to happen if you don’t change anything..

While it can be scary.. It’s growth..
And that’s what you want as a person, to grow..

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