NICE GUYS aren't good men..
There are differences..
Are you a good man or a nice guy..？
If this seems to you like an odd question, Well.. it's not..

A Nice guy will be worried about his reputation, but Good men will be only concerned with their character..
A Nice guy fears of being rejected, so he seeks validation but, Good man doesn't tie his worth, no matter if he is rejected or accepted..

A Nice guy will just cloak his intentions & will also be unclear..The Good man will be upfront about his intentions.. he will have clear aims, he does not leave a space for ambiguity..

A Nice guy will do some things with unspoken expectations.. For example - He will take a damsel/woman on a date & he will expect to get something in return.. but Good men do things without expectation of a payoff.. He is acting following his core values & if he receives a return, it will merely be a bonus..

A Nice guy will smoother his current love interests & will make the his woman the center of his universe but, the Good man will give her appropriate attention, without becoming overbearing or take over the life of that woman..

Nice guys will often blame other people or circumstances, as well as the fate for his lost in life but, Good men will recognize his role & will also take responsibility for his actions..

A Nice guy has the lack of leadership abilities but, a good man will take serious charge of his life.. He will also become the master of his fate..

A Nice guy does not have the habit of apologizing when he is wrong.. but, a good man is quick with apologies & fast with reparations..

The Nice guy will live in service of himself as well as his desires.. the Good man will live in service of humanity..

A Nice guy will take the easy road - the shortcuts but, the Good man is committed to his development.. He will do the work to become a better man..

A Nice guy will often say what other people want to hear but, the good man will say what they need to hear..

A Nice guy has loose boundaries & he will also bend over backward in order to seem nice but, the good man has his boundaries clear..

Nice guys will often make some lofty promises to look good in front of the ladies but, the good men will only make promises that they can fulfill..

So, If you are a Good man, thanks a lot..
The world will need more of you..

Women/ladies.. If you also have a good man next to you - Keep him..

Remember - The men we need in every generation are those that will learn to rule themselves, lead others & bow before a mighty God..

We need not reinvent what a man is, but only rediscover him.. Man is the macrocosm of the macrocosm, the God on Earth is built on the pattern of the God in nature..